Apparently this was my ex-boyfriend's choice phrase for telling other guys who were interested in me (with or without my knowledge). Truth be told, he never let me know how he felt about me, but my sneaking suspicion of him having some role in the disappearance of guys I danced with or talked to at parties.
The other night I was finally able to get him to fess up and the funny part is, I wasn't even mad. In fact, I just laughed at finally being able to confirm what I thought all along.
I mean, really how many years does it take to admit that you tapped a guy I was dancing with while we were "on a break" and pulled him aside and told him I was off limits? In our case, apparently 7.
Truth be told, none of the guys that I know he dismissed have amounted to anything so it was probably for the best. And as he explained how he approached each situation, I learned that more people in college knew he had feelings for me than I expected. So on some level at that point in time, while he couldn't express his feelings to me, he let others know.
So for the sake of closure, I can now put my mind to rest on what happened to those three guys in particular and move on with my life hoping he's not the reason some other guys have disappeared in more recent years...
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