Junior

So I went out with Jr. this weekend and I can't quite put my finger on it but something isn't quite right.

Don't get me wrong. He said all the right things and he paid for dinner and our movie but there's that little alarm and red flag waving in the back of my head that this may not be a good match.

Last night we hung out briefly because he said he wanted to see me before I leave for two weeks and I obliged knowing that in the past I would have blown a guy off for the sake of sleeping.

I know people in glass houses can't throw stones but as I drove to his place, while I liked that he only lived 10 minutes away, I just couldn't get over the fact that he still lives with his mom. Sure, he's only a few months older than me but I just think in a real relationship at least one of the two people should have their own place.

Not to mention I think guys get my definition of "not looking for a relationship" confused with "I'll hang out with any guy because I'm not looking to be tied down."

I think this is what happened to Junior because while he said he only has "associates" who are females, I peeped that he was texting someone named Ashley while I was over his place and if anyone knows me, they know I don't deal well with liars.

I told him such as well as not to try to outsmart me because he wouldn't win. I think he thinks this is a challenge and he will try to continue to win me over but I know he has no idea what he's in for.

At any rate maybe this trip to Canada will help ease my mind and get me away from all this male madness I've been experiencing.