I always know that there is truth to the statement that when you go looking for something you're bound to find it. Imagine my surprise that I'd find something that now has me darn near about to throw up based on some unsettling photos I found on my alumni shopping buddy's facebook page.
I know I did my due diligence in asking the preliminary questions I needed to before completely letting myself fall for the guy's charm BUT if these pictures don't have a recent backstory behind them, then this guy has some SERIOUS explaining to do.
I earnestly prayed to God to show me if he was the right person for me to even consider dating and based on my current perplexity I'm at a loss.
I wonder if he will ever call again. Chances are, he won't. But if he does, well I guess I'll pray on what to do in that situation too.
The most important thing is that I never want to be perceived as the girl who ruins other people's relationships and I don't want people to think I'm too naive to know if I'm being played for a fool SO I will simply follow the advice of my pastor on this one and "give time, time."
But for the record, I gave him two opportunities to clarify his situation by asking him his relationship status and then second, telling him about an incident where a guy was less-than forthcoming about having a child and that not working out.
Shaking my head- what's wrong with these men.
No comments:
Post a Comment