Why do we do that?

Yep, us? I mean I know this blog is about me and all my exploits but I feel to include my fellow single women in this question.

The “that” I’m referring to would be when we have a good guy who wants to spend time with us, calls and invites us to other things, but for some reason we find a reason to get rid of him.

Suddenly after months (or years) of saying we want a guy who calls, comes up with things for us to do, we don’t want to get involved because the guy is “too available” or better yet, “needy.”

Don’t get me wrong, some guys are needy and those should be avoided at all cost or at least tipped off that their neediness is the reason you are leaving them that way they can work on it for their next relationship. ☺

I think the only reason to not let a relationship bloom if you feel the guy is too needy is if you aren’t attracted to them.

Because I’m a firm believer if you’re not attracted to them in the first place, when the relationship does end at the end of it all you will hate yourself for getting in the relationship when “I was never attracted to him in the first place.”

Been there, done that. And that is the one reason I will not let a so-so relationship work.