Matching

A few months ago to encourage my friend to get "on the wagon" for dating, I half-heartedly signed up for an online dating site. I decided I wanted to just see what was out there. I found next to nothing. :-)

Which was comforting because I knew I would do better enjoying my life not sitting behind a computer trying to find love. At this moment I have no complaints.

Now that I'm in a new city I decided to change my location to once again see what I was facing.  I've been less than enthralled with the people they've sent my way and as a result, I usually ignore the e-mails when they come through.

Today was the exception. One of my matches looked interesting so I decided to click on the profile and read more. I was happy I did.  More than anything he talked about his faith and commitment to God and while it could all be false, I was intrigued.  I decided to take a chance to message him (it required posting a picture which I will certainly take down after one week if he doesn't respond...) and see if he could recommend a church for me since I'm new to the city.  I don't believe women should approach men and that will probably always remain my philosophy so I would love to have a friend who can help me find a place to worship.

I recognize a part of who I am in any relationship depends on my relationship with God so I need to have that on track before I do anything.  I don't want to go through the motions with God. I want to have a loving and active relationship so that I can recognize all the information he gives me about the men in my life. I hope he responds and shows how true he is about being a Christian. Then and only then can I think about anything else about him.