Signs

I don't believe in "signs" but I do believe that I can get divine guidance in multiple forms. It's not a surprise that I've gotten a lot of it recently since I've started dating the graduate.

As we started to move out of our "honeymoon" period, I began to have doubts about the validity of the relationship. Did I rush in? Is it going to work? Are we too compatible? I was becoming the enemy of our relationship.

But a great thing happened one Sunday morning. While driving to church the minister on the radio was talking about relationships. Throughout the sermon he gave sound advice on how to deal with men in relationships. I was grateful. I learned even more for the next few weeks that he continued on the relationship topic.

As it turns out at the same time I was being fed sound advice, so was my guy. I was fortunate to hear the last sermon his pastor preached on the subject when I visited that Sunday (more to come on that).

What his minister shared made a lot of sense, and I've tried to implement a lot of what he told us into our relationship.

Because I pray for the graduate every day and that God guides the two of us to the right place for each of us, I know everything will be okay.

This last Sunday, I woke up earlier than expected and I decided to turn on the radio minister. When my mind started to drift from the topic at hand on a concern I had about the two of us, my ears perked up as the minister addressed that very same topic. To say I was shocked is an understatement. Shocked, but grateful.

I know whatever issue I have, I must pray and have a willing heart and an open ear to hear the answer.