Weeding out doubt

You ever hear about married couples who go through the "what-if" syndrome" days or weeks before their wedding.

That is, they ask themselves "what if I was supposed to marry someone else," or "What if I never broke up with Joe Blow, would I ever have met John Doe," etc.

I feel that I'm starting to weed out the doubt about guys in whom I'm mildly to completely interested until I'll find out exactly who the right person for me will be.

For instance, the guy who stood me up for a pre-birthday celebration and hasn't returned a call, text or BB message for going on 6 days...

And then my gym cutie who's much too young for me.

And trainee who doesn't follow through on commitments.

The guy I desired a relationship with years who broke my heart more than anyone else when we finally got together.

The childhood crush who also disappeared (gee this is a sad recurring theme in my life) and seemed to be hiding something anyway.

All these guys who I think I could "be with" have in some way at some (recent) point in time shown me that they are indeed not "the one."

I think this is why historically God has shown the man the woman that was fit to be a wife. Because women are able to adapt to any situation so typically any good man that they like can eventually be their husband.

Does this mean I'm any closer to finding Mr. Right? I'm not quite sure. But I am thankful for the little nugget of wisdom God gave me this morning with this insight.